Philosophic theory 039a¤ in life
In what case it will be no matter what it is, want criticize someone else for, as us, must examine oneself first, get the truth, even fault of the other side, we can take the attitude a bit more tolerant.
Take the lead in taking a step which turn enemy into the friend
In the past, small town, Bia of Bo, Su have two call George and neighbour of Jim, what kind neighbour is they really. Though someone
Why can't remember clearly either on earth, but not peaceful each other. They only know that does not like the other side, this reason is enough.
So emergence of an angle occasionally of theirs. Though the wheel is often touched together when the backyard discharge the grass machine to weed in summer, but both sides do not even hit under most situations.
Later, later, George and wife went out to go on holidays in two weeks in summer. Begin Jim and wife and has not noticed they have left. Too, what do they pay attention to doing? Besides corner of the mouth, they seldom speak each other.
But one day at dusk Jim has noticed since home courtyard has weeded the grass of George's home has been already very high. The own lawn divided by looked very showy just now.
The passing person to driving, it is not at home that it is very obvious for George and wife, and has already left for a long time. Jim think this mean, disclose, invite burglar register one's residence, and later idea seized him like lightning.
"I see that very high lawn, really person unwilling to go to help me not to like in the heart again. " Jim says, " no matter I want to erase this kind of idea from the brain more, but the idea going to help can not get rid of. I except that getting kind on pairs of the long getting crazy lawn will it be morning the next day!
"A few days later, George and Dora came back in the afternoon of one Sunday. They come back soon, I see George strolling about in the street. He has stayed in front of each house of the whole block.

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How long does the job wants in probationary period (2)
Set up the idea of development of job only in early days, the ones that went through longer job probationary period were tempered, possess broad knowledge and person of the vocational skills, can enter the society smoothly, become outstanding professional talents.
Early life is designed (1)
--Common subject of parents, the child, educator and society
Early life design, job it plans to be tyrannical arbitrary parents' hope at the body imposed on child, but the common subject which parents, student, educator should cooperate together with the whole society. Rely mainly on the fact that parents combine with child, strengthen students' autognosis; The educator relying mainly on teacher carries on students' knowledge education with student, assist students to merge the book knowledge and vocational skills each other, let child, parents and teacher probe into knowledge, job, education and professional relation, make the planning in life together; Parents, educator, the whole society together, provide employment for student resource planned, solve the planning problem of the job.
In childhood such as child and teenager key period of growth the, family the most influential to child. If parents can help children to analyze one's own personality, characteristic, hobby consciously, explore the road, job are planned in life suiting the child, it is the child's future and job orientation that bring inestimable influence.
Can often build the atmosphere in the family, probe into the job that the child is interested in together from child childhood; Intend, create, contact various work of chances, let child and engaged in different professional people keep in touch, talk more, find out about various jobs and working requirements for personal quality and knowledge ability as many as possible, the properties of the work, the development prospect,etc. of future; Often read the papers and magazines, look for the job information of the media, care the job develops the tendency, understand professional can change direction ing, expand the child's relevant range of knowlege. Meanwhile, parents guide imperceptibly according to the child's characteristic. The job consciousness that is so trained for a long time, can make children possess corresponding knowledge and skill, can train them in order to reach the overall quality that a certain goal needs too. This is an indispensable important subject while training children of parents.
Present students, in the face of the careers market of keen competition, the society having more and more high expectations for vocational skills, it is calm that they no longer go to the office to just carry on pre-job training, have to be " early-maturing " ,Job having to be familiar with facing ahead of time. They once worked hard for educating in the university " The examination machine " ,Now, become same romantic " obtain employment machine " very helplessly . So, to child, strengthened autognosis while as a child, analyzed one's own strong weak spot, consider being suit one's own job, compare with, require, develop the advantage, find out disparity, " charging " constantly ,Can be close to the job goal gradually, become the outstanding one adapting to the job market.
Have not already been educated in the university in era when everything is just fine now, educate the administrator to let child, parents and teacher probe into knowledge, job, education and professional relation, make the planning in life together; The school should not merely provide for student and face " College entrance examination " Course,it is traditional in offering " knowledge " of the concepts ,Should set up some too " Practical " Course, make students combine knowledge and employment together. Organize some lectures, provide long-term careers guidance and vocational education for children, make them possess certain employment, make a living skill, have higher relevant quality. A lot of children have it to professional understanding because of listening to some lectures, thus established the goal in life. This subject, should mention early the education schedule of the school comes up.
The school can also study U.S.A., invite personnel of all trades and professions to the school, introduce various professional situations to the students. A lot of schools in U.S.A. begin from grade one of primary school, invites various employees regularly each term, go to the school to carry on the formative education of the job voluntarily. They have engineer, entrepreneur, banker, there are the doctor, lawyer, fire fighter, shop manager, police too. They tell child the knowledge related to job, including job requirements, content, property, condition, job hunting method, salary remuneration,etc.. Person that the school lectured comes in these, great majority are the parents of student. The parents from various families are a kind of extremely abundant vocational guidance resource.
The library of the school should collect certain amounts of books related to job. I reach to the library of primary school where the daughter studies, only the small-scale library of two 30,000 books has about 100 extraordinary " specialities " to find this one Relevant professional books. There are a line of words of page each, mix the picture, it is obviously for child who just read to see <>; Have with excellent pictures and texts, include more than 600 kinds of professional " job dictionaries "; It is to there is be dozens of copy the every ones series of books,it is for instance " sports coach ", " whether last technician dentistry ", " criminal investigation technician ",etc.. Various professional books of these introductions, regard pupil as reader's marriage partner.
In U.S.A., some publisher publish serial children job teach beginners books even. One ask " The story-book station " Company,it publish since kindergarten which get sixth grade primary school complete set job of dozens of copies last book, each grade includes 6 big classes such as medical treatment & health, industry, project, commerce, market and computer, natural science, social science, art and spread, for children to understand professional and professional relation and various professional details while as a child.
It's interesting a lot of books that publisher produce, can seem serious topic very job this piece to child, write very vivid and interesting, until one give six grade industrial book " how about Ford make the car Henry " of project that child read, it seems to be to recommend Ford Motor to make history, but use the extremely meticulous picture by a wide margin in the book, have shown the whole car from casting, processing, assembling, until the whole course that is dispatched from the factory in detail, it will be in vivid characters and picture to melt project knowledge and vocational skills ingeniously. Another " rebuild U.S.A. big city " that show students of grade six even, it introduces to be loud building site most in American history that go into operation 1991 - -Tunnel project in Boston. This does not seem very apt to cause the book of child's interest, cooperate with the abundant photo and interesting engineering concept together, quite attractive, can let the child understand this professional field of industrial project and industry's engineer's work specifically.
Job information it obtains to be life important a part most in the design, job information the earth influenced people's job to plan very much. A lot of people confine the field of job information to wanted advertisement, salary investigation, graduate's employment quantity and report of the proportion. In fact, in addition, job information also should include, seem independent message past and present. A lot of ordinary books, especially personage's biography, can all be considered to be the source of job information. Many people are influenced by personage's biography, establish the goal in life, thus make the ambition of one's own life. There is history of 70 years, specially publish one dose of publishing companies full of trees of fee of the job and careers guidance books, have reached second grade, students to grade five of grade three to publish two one set of books separately for infant's class, the title is very long, one of these is called < relevant career education children's literature with >. This it is one that have a brief to introduce one, recommend 1 018 this children's literature book of books, it is a vocational guidance books. Every book introduced in the book, can all be considered to be job information, among them include the biographies of a large number of personages.

Section 12 Former tenant (2)
I think I must have had dealings with my former tenant during the process of renting house.
The doctor says, I have got alternative memory loss disease, in my consciousness depths, I am unwilling to go to face it for some things, then, I will forget it selectively.
I did not hear of this kind of disease at all in the past, did not realize its severity at all either at that time. I lay in the hospital at that time, my only hope was that I could continue picture before, live like a normal person frolicking happily. The doctor says, the brain is mauled, the possibility to become the vegetable or become the idiots all exist, so suffer from, lose memory disease only, I should be happy.
Now, I want, tow, come over the doctor, face to wash him come up two fists.
The telephone just now was certainly that forest swallow called, I left the bed and turned on the notebook computer, operate the procedure of controlling, see Lin Yan's sitting room and bedroom being all a pitch-dark slice. I am a bit strange, can Lin Yan go to sleep again in less than two minutes after making after that telephone number?
Later, I found at last that there is small and red and bright one in the darkness of the bedroom, it was with ups and downs, will also move. I have distinguished for quite a while, just thought of that perhaps when being a cigarette end, the light in the bedroom was bright, the forest swallow nipped and killed the cigarette end, suddenly stood up from bed.
I open eyes wide, do not know what Lin Yan wants to do.
Lin Yan stands on the bed, only wears little underwear of cloth on one's body, she puts up both arms, the body is wrenched slightly. I expect the forest swallow to dance at once, she is closing eyes, very intoxicated on the face. Her waist is very fine, the buttock is very energetic, her skin has splashing paly like the cream on the canvas. I have felt the strength surged in the body gradually, they condense to soon a point is had, want to spurt out urgently.
My so long as to appeal for tone, eyes split second does not stare at the woman in the picture blinking. The woman wrenched faster and faster, that movement was just like a catkin in the wind later. I seem to sound with the fierce music in one's ear, the sound sound of drumbeat beats my heart. The breath that I hear I becomes big and heavy, seem to touch to woman's lip with wet warm upsurge again, soft and ice-cold health.
We twine with each other, entangle gentle, deserted moonlight drop on body of us, in wave in blue palpitation of boat I, totally lose it in that world of empty fairy. My hands wriggle on the pale skin, I felt I have embraced the very soft and dimly discernible cloud, all of my strengths let me reach other shore at that time
Lin Yan is still waving, the sound of that scene of music has been already deafening at this moment.
I suddenly grew a kind of impulse out at this moment - -The ones that go straight to and embrace her by the woman at once and ever happen as my memory, embrace she, let her spend warm Yin breath of Yun those my parcel tightly, let I in in being dizzy, sinking into, arriving boundless desire that among the sea at this point most thorough.
At this moment, I know why be when I expect the forest swallow to wait for a man suddenly, have known some and ached in my heart. Originally, I had already loved this woman again when never perceiving by oneself.
The thought let me cool down gradually, I sweat all over the face, already become very depressed.
I can't love Lin Yan again, because I have ever loved her once. The result of that love, must end up by her murder, how could I love a woman who has ever murdered me?
Lin Yan in the computer display screen, the body was suddenly so stiff that a piece of mud of portrait was even. She still keeps the posture of the dance, but has not already moved at all.
I am staring at her, do not know what she wants to do next.
Forest swallow may work up finally, she is sticking to the wall to stand closely, hands are constantly drawing something at the wall. After for a moment, the large red word of several basins has appeared impressively on the wall.
Lin Yan's word is not written really very beautifully, but the thing that she used for writing should be a tube of lipsticks, so, those big characters seem bloody and take some ferocious.
--Come back three days later, wait for me.
The message content that unexpectedly Lin Yan issued me to her has been written on the wall.
Then, I think upstairs, whether Lin Yan's spirit has a few problems.
Third day, Monday, Lin Yan goes to work as usual on, one time more than usual of time that just made up in front of the mirror, and has worn the yellowish-brown pure silk shirts of a piece of long sleeves. I know she wants to conceal her pale face with cosmetics, the shirt of the long sleeves can cover the wrist that her gauze chartered.
Lin Yan went to work and did not ride the motorcycle this day, but blocked a taxi by the outlet. Whether I have hesitated, or decide to give up following. Have had breakfast in the snack store that I reached outside the district, has bought some fruits while coming back, see roadside lie prone one covered with silver hair old beggar, pay of change use on his bowl on the way, have also given that fruit to him too.
I come into the lift empty-handedly, there are several old ladies buying the breakfast in the lift downstairs. They talk in whispers while speaking, always take the eyes and have a look, I, this makes me scared. The lift has reached the 13th floor, I go down in a hurry, put the key of drawing, has taken several steps forward, hear the lift door shut, the tone that this has just appealed for.
I suspend on not walking, pick up the ears, hear, go to stair mouth at a fast pace, ground reach 12 carefully.
I am very lucky, not knocked during the process of finishing opening the door and closing the door. I stand on the shoes blanket by the door carefully, look around the sitting room that is already known well very much, the heart is permeated with a kind of very complicated flavour again.
I have changed the shoes, is that pair that Lin Yan wears every day. Wear the sitting room, reach in the bedroom, has not tidied up the bed at all after Lin Yan gets up on, so the woollen blanket in bed is still spread out in a mess. I stand by bed, sight stare at those several striking big characters at the wall behind the bed extremely.
I can experience Yan Lin getting deeply worried, wait for, may engaged in man crazy really perhaps.
Even if Lin Yan of today draws denser making up, it is wan and sallow to cover up her. I do not know in current it evening, the forest swallow finds that message is just a lie, whether she still can bear such a blow.
Must hide a certain change behind unusual bearing, think about the dance of her night of at yesterday, I worry standing up truly for her. I do not hope I have not retrieved lost memory, what accidents she has first.

On December 31 and the last day on the calendar, Yang Qing will get married tomorrow. Recuperate what of one more than week Wei health already very good, make an appointment, get hotel think meet yet, be a daughter afternoon.
She turns on the computer and looks over the mail not checked for more than one week in the morning. See several awfully good mails that send in the inbox impressively. She jump heart open one by one, it sees to be only memorandum and one Xiao groups of party notice sent Li that involved in work all furiously.
Yes, it is today, just tonight, Liu KaiZhong who she loved will leave soon, leave this place to give birth to and bring up him, too in what Wei's still youthful life will be left forever.
Farewell Party will be held in a French restaurant of the east in the city, will begin writing in the mail with half past six in the evening, non- drunk to return. What Wei is heartrending in one morning, takes the mobile phone at one's side, afraid deeply telephone is available to lose any by mistaking or a message, she thinks, even if just Xiao Li calls and invites again, she can go to participate in Party openly and legally, meet his chance again for oneself.
But until He Wei plans to go out, there are not a few words of anyone of awfully good company. Go out, change clothes, Wei He afraid ten thousand receive the invitation at noon, there won't be time to come back home and change the outfit temporarilied still, so clothes and ornament getting ready to be be worn in the evening specially, put on the car, for emergency needs.
2 of 15
He Wei has already fallen in love with her losing control of once seeing small Vicky at the first sight. She has father's dense eyebrow, big eyes; Have mother's round noses, sharp and sharp chin, and pitch-black dense hair.
She just ate up the milk, lay prone and burped on mother's back on He Wei entered the door. He Wei has embraced from hand of Yan carefully she has come, the heavy ground of little child, see He Wei's mouth smiling, four small fat hands and small fat feet are also waved cuffing and kicking, living and taking off is that the powder is carved to the little angel that the jade chiselled.
He Wei holds her without sitting down either, does not feel hard to see either to leave in this way. Or Yan must give light Vicky change urine slice finally, she this return give mother others unwilling.
He Wei sees Yan change the urine slice skillfully, says with deep feeling: "Yan, has said you may smile at me, I have a worry in so many years, it is the shameful home that there is beautiful hair. That piece I mention public relations willow swallow of Company to you, have head getting American outrageous long hair like you. Well! I think oneself terribly ugly if see her! "
"Neuropathy! You have already been enough for beauty, how thinking of? " Yan raise one's head pile, from panty-shape diapers, getting white first of her.
"I am serious! Anyway I am not afraid of talking about this topic either now, I really thought and then shaken and poisoned and bewitched abducting by your beautiful hair at that time, begin animosity get up all have beautiful woman of hair later! But! Persons of Xia Yan's children, you have too to admit, I am always defeated by the woman with beautiful hair this lifetime! Well! " What Wei both hands ask cheek, afford to full of interest, dry and comfortable comfortable little Vicky sleep.
The treasure that Yan jiggled in one's arms, lower volume and say: "See whom you say as true as the real one! But serious, has not then seen you for many years, your hair quality is much better comparing with the time of studying in the university! "
"Ah! That's great, there is approval of you expert, I am much more happy. Yang Qing and I always follow your instruction having one's hair wash, hair care, a step does not dare to omit. Cured according to your method on even fine husband Yang's dandrufves! "
"Oh oh! I have heard what the dandruff gentleman's wicked name No. 32 you have also got up for others! "
In vacillating and staggering, the little angel has already fallen asleep under the lulling of mother's children's folk rhymes. Yan place her on bed, give Wei He and pour cup orange juice by oneself meticulously, in where be opposite to the Wei, sofa by the window sit down.
What Wei crosses legs, the labour contractor leans against the big sofa comfortably, close the eyes a little, sign and say again: "How fast this the eye flashes! You have already become mother, Yang Qing will want marriage tomorrow, but I have already become to the letter ' have the woman left '. "
"Ah! The holy girl? What does it mean? " Her meaning that has not understand Yan.
Wei He still same posture, close eyes make fun of Yan, make fun of oneself say too:
"Well! You do nothing but act as the housewife, is not such a fashionable network noun known? This leaves, is left leaving, not sacred and holy! Woman thatting is to have education, there are undertakings, have the appearance as I do, reach it is but age that marry, live and live for left it's a pity womenning! "
Yan has been heard and cannot help laughing suddenly, what is later but at once cared about is questioned: "Farewell Party of tonight, have you decided? "

He Wei, Yang Qing, summer Yan, three departments that psychological spend, in not I wonder how many young boy's tender and pale dreams to intrude uponning.
Seeing summer Yan for the first time, He Wei does not have too much good opinion. The blazing sun that was carrying afterheat that day goes through formalities of registering in new life, in front of Yan ranked He Wei in summer, a pitch-black glossy long hair pitches the horse hair very high, shake and shake the ground under the hot sun, make He Wei the vexed air dry. Only thought Yan looked like the people in Nan Yang, the long hair like the skin, dense eyebrow eyelashes, silk satin of the color of malt very much in summer at that time, and dazzlingly white teeth.
Find Yan assign in the same rooms of dormitory with summer, what Wei still a bit anxious in heart later, afraid deeply that can not get along with this classmate like fire from the southern seashore, appearance warmly. Move into one evening in dormitory, four berth still empty two, Wei He and Yan say too many what summer, just miss mother each, includes the uneasy falling asleep of tears.
Early in the morning, He Wei had not woken up yet, had heard that the sound received asking for came the followingly the next day, she bows the lower part of the body, finds a whole face is that the girl of the sweat is taking the thing in the duffel bag out walking gingerly, see that has woken Wei and others He up, introduce oneself meeting rudeness with a flattering smile at once:
"It is really sorry, have only this train from our home, wake you up so early! My name is Yang Qing, come from the Northeast. "
Another empty bed is that the girl in Beijing, department of education has lived in families, she has had one to already a good boyfriend want, the school read suffers by them closely, so she is always out, very late to just come back sometimes, do not see the trace for several days sometimes.
So, these three come from far apart separately, all children leaving home for the first time, have a class in the same classroom in the daytime, crowd and sleep on the same bed in the evening, fresh university life, novel interesting Beijing scenery, muddled muddleheaded young girl feelings that irritate, the girl beautiful letting three not solve the affairs of human life, become the good friend sharing the mood, keeping no secrets from each other.
The new term begins to leave a message psychologically on the forum anonymously more than one month later, the topic is called ' my illusionary joy '. Inside where Wei they three people liken as summer of take fairy maidens beautifuls, as a spirit, sinking into him will become empty daytime in the big dream after all. He Wei is a gentle and sweet incarnation; Yang Qing is bright and warm representatives; Yan is the totem like fire warmly.
Since then, three names that department spend that psychological have spread far and wide, what Wei and others begin to enjoy the beautiful and youthful life wilfully too.

The ' hair-dressing ceremony ' of Yan is the moment that three young girls expect most before sleeping every night, sometimes, the girl in Beijing will join with enthusiasm too.
Hair to grow item Wei He always, so she like Yan hair-dressing knowledge to teach her. As for Yang being fine, because have one head fluffy natural curly hair, bad to fight, cut, in addition, any thing that she does not understand, all enough to stimulate her infinite curiosity and curiosity. So, every night, in the small dormitory room, two girls lie prone on the bed, bend, see Yan incline, down the long hair like the dark waterfall, comb the hair carefully, massage the scalp gently, gentle like treating sweetheart's treasure. Later on they know, mother of Yan is very famous hairdresser in the locality, and Yan has already acted as the model of the hair-dressing products at the age of 13.
Qing Yang the age is the longest among 3 people, so she celebrates birthday first in spring next year. It is arduous that the parents engaging in farming are for her to go to Beijing to educate in the university in order to show understanding in the native place, Yang Qing has never bought the presentable thing, all has one's hair wash the products are not put up with and used carelessly, pull out and make and enclose the sample presented in the dormitory magazine. So on birthday of this year, He Wei and Yan two people save the pocket money, is decided by Yan, have bought a whole set of hair-dressing products suitable for her hair quality for Yang Qing, place in beautiful pink canvas bag, tie the rose silk ribbon, Yan quite talented in literature has been also written with one section small and gentle on the birthday card.
"Perhaps it is God that has added the dew on the petal of the Garden of Eden in Eve's body, then the woman has curves like flowing water, the face like the flower, condense the gentle sincerity apt to change on even hair silk silk. Many glitter how much pearl surround emerald is elegant to reflect how much sunshine in the afternoon take place, while being beautiful on being black to send. "
Give Qing Yang, we true love and friend beautiful.
PS: Have and hair care had one's hair wash, " he " always as loath to part from each other as one pair With " she " ,Must not break them!
Yang lay prone and did not stop crying on the bed outside being fine to receive, after the present, exceed what Wei and others expect unexpectedly that night, wait for her to have a rest to stop slightly, just and explain this reason far from each other of acting with her on ordinary days too shily, from little her that come of an impoverished family, celebrate birthday at all times, mention, receive birthday gift any still more originally, so these bottles of other people seem insignificant and have the products had one's hair wash, for her, but there is special meaning cared about, loved dearly and had pity for, paid attention to.